annoyed

I have an 9 month old son, and his father only comes around if he is cornered to come around. We end up making arrangements for him to take him every other weekend and every thursday overnights. He’ll stick to the agreement for his first week of taking him than I won’t hear from him for weeks to months.

Were both 20, and unmarried. He’s not on the birth certificate, paternity of aknowledgement hasn’t been signed, nor has their been any paternity test or legitimation, and I am working on getting child support.

He say’s he wants to be involved, but tries to blame it on me as to why he doesn’t come around. He says he gets anxiety around me and he doesn’t know why. I really don’t think that is a legitimate reason to not see your son, but whatever.

LEGALLY would it be ok to just ignore him when he chooses to try and contact me which is very little. I don’t want to be accused of custodial interference if later down the line we end up in court. And just for the record this has been repeatedly happening probably over 10 times and is very annoying.